I actually had a couple immensely fun and enjoyable dates with a guy recently (see post below). He was hilarious, he thought I was hilarious, he was all over me telling me how hot I was and making out with me, insinuating future things we might do together, my insanity seemed to excite him rather than terrify him, he seemed like he might be kinda dirty in bed, he was smart and had sexy eyes, he was cute but not so hot that he might be a player, etc... things seemed dimly promising. (Aside from the fact that he's leaving the country to travel for at least a month, god I'm such a sucker for impossible situations!) Anyway, he's an artist/architect and he mentioned that he had a ton of photos up on facebook. Being the nosey person I am I decided to check out his profile. I considered it doing a little 'psychological research'.
Shit. First of all he has 731 friends. What?! Who the hell has that many friends on there? I guess he went to some fancy pantsy school back east and now he's at Cal Berkeley so he has a big network but damn... Then he has 97 photo ALBUMS posted. Each albums has dozens and dozens of pictures. There are probably like a 1000 photos posted. What's in these photos? Picture after picture of him partying with a seemingly endless stream of hip young architects/Berkeley students/whatever. AND it to make it worse there are tons of photos of him posing with hot semi-drunk girls. WTF?! I honestly can't understand why he would even have to go online to meet someone if he is constantly out partying and surrounded by cute girls. It just doesn't make any sense. I'm extremely suspicious now. Everything he's said and done now appear to be disingenuous. Sigh...will this ever end?!!!
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Girlfriend, if he was dating or sleeping with those girls, he wouldn't need to internet date. Unless he's some sort of freaky sex addict or something, and he needs a different chick every night.
So he's popular, and has a lot of friends. That can be a good thing! and maybe he's just been on FB from the beginning ... or maybe he's in a million networks. Who knows. But don't freak out. He sounds cool! Don't get paranoid unless he gives you a real reason. :)
I'm suspicious of popular people. I think everyone should be a weird loner like myself. Or at least my man should be. I WANT HIM ALL TO MYSELF!!!!! hahahaha
Just think about the approach. If you go along "having fun," then it really doesn't raise the stakes that much. If you play it cooly and want to meet his friends and have him meet your friends, then you should get a better idea. If he is after just "fun," then that is too much work. If he really wants you as a person, then this all seems pretty reasonable.
Update: Apparently he's deleted his online dating profile. Hmmmm... Interesting. Very interesting.
Ah, fuck it - he's leaving town soon to travel and I'm most likely outta here too. So long and thanks for all the kisses!
Hmm. So maybe your suspicions were correct after all. Onwards and upwards, little Violet!
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